What have I gotten myself into? Background: I have always hated to run. Last year I decided to like it and signed up for a half marathon. Yes, I did it. I completed said half and then had knee surgery. This happened in November and I have done very little running since. So, to get myself geared up to run again, I signed up for another half next October. Here is where I went wrong:
A friend (crazy in shape overachiever friend) asked me to run with her this morning (in 28 minutes to be exact). I agreed. WTH? What was I thinking? She is going to completely kick my a$$!!!!! Here is ,my plea: please pray for me over the next couple hours and if you are in Marietta and see a lady passed out on the side of the road, go ahead and call the bus. I am sure it will be me.
Thanks for reading. I just had to write to calm my nerves, and muscles.
Soup for the sanity of Southern, sassy, suburban ladies. Topped with a sprinkle of wit and cheese.
Friday, May 6, 2011
Sunday, May 1, 2011
So Far, So Good...
My hubby called a 'family meeting' tonight while we were eating dinner. Pen was in hand and numbers were on paper. He was ready to discuss our girls earning an allowance. He asked "what do you think is a reasonable amount of money that you should get each week for doing extra chores?" Eight year olds response: "two dollars" and the ten year olds response "twenty five dollars". I shouted "Twenty five dollars? Daddy said a reasonable amount." My husband chimed in and said that he and ten year old had already been talking and they came up with that amount. I was more on board with eight year old than the other two. Ten year old did not surprise me with this, but where did my frugal husband go? I mean, this man is so tight that he squeaks when he walks. Do aliens really take over humans? I had never believed it, until now.
We started talking about what would be expected of the girls in order to earn a weekly allowance:
If they do not pick up behind themselves, monies will be deducted.
If they misbehave, monies will be deducted.
Once monies are deducted, they cannot be 're-earned'.
Extra chores will be given to each girl in addition to regular clean up (ie, vacuum out car).
They will not be expected to 'clean', but they are expected to pick up their mess.
50% of allowance will go to savings,
10% to church,
10% to charity,
30% for them to use as they please.
Okay,so once the breakdown was introduced, I was feeling much better about this idea. The kids should learn a great deal about how to save and plan with the money they are given. Now for implementation.
I will run out tomorrow and get a jar (or something cute) to put marbles in. Each girl will start the week with 25 marbles, one for every dollar. For any violation of the allowance rules, a marble (or more) will be taken away from the jar. At the end of the week, we will pay them as we agreed and start again the following week with 25 marbles.
Hopefully, this will help with tornado cleanup. We are in the South but did not have an actual twister come through here. Our children are our natural disaster when it comes to cleanliness. It usually looks as if we have had tornadic action in our den/kitchen/baesment (on and on and on......) on a daily basis.
Our family meeting was held 6 hours ago and we have zero violations thus far. To be fair, the children have been sleeping for 3 of the 6 hours. My fingers are crossed that this will work. So far, so good.
We started talking about what would be expected of the girls in order to earn a weekly allowance:
If they do not pick up behind themselves, monies will be deducted.
If they misbehave, monies will be deducted.
Once monies are deducted, they cannot be 're-earned'.
Extra chores will be given to each girl in addition to regular clean up (ie, vacuum out car).
They will not be expected to 'clean', but they are expected to pick up their mess.
50% of allowance will go to savings,
10% to church,
10% to charity,
30% for them to use as they please.
Okay,so once the breakdown was introduced, I was feeling much better about this idea. The kids should learn a great deal about how to save and plan with the money they are given. Now for implementation.
I will run out tomorrow and get a jar (or something cute) to put marbles in. Each girl will start the week with 25 marbles, one for every dollar. For any violation of the allowance rules, a marble (or more) will be taken away from the jar. At the end of the week, we will pay them as we agreed and start again the following week with 25 marbles.
Hopefully, this will help with tornado cleanup. We are in the South but did not have an actual twister come through here. Our children are our natural disaster when it comes to cleanliness. It usually looks as if we have had tornadic action in our den/kitchen/baesment (on and on and on......) on a daily basis.
Our family meeting was held 6 hours ago and we have zero violations thus far. To be fair, the children have been sleeping for 3 of the 6 hours. My fingers are crossed that this will work. So far, so good.
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